About Me

Paul Lutton, Founder

After 39 years of marriage and 12 years in a partnership ended by cancer, I found myself 73 years old and single. Over five years of impermanent successes and failures using online dating apps, I met my near-perfect match for a long-term lover and partner.

From my research, interviews, and dating experiences I’ve learned a great deal about myself, dating, and relationships. This has clarified reality and helped me to grow. Boomers Out of the Box shares my insights and experiences to benefit Boomers as they face the challenges of aging. To that end, I have also begun new services focused exclusively on seniors:

• Dating Coaching. As a coach, offering online and face-to-face discussion and consultation in one-on-one as well as group formats.
• Portraits. Providing photographs for senior men and women in the San Francisco Bay area that will capture their personalities and natural attractiveness; enhancing their ability to attract the matches they seek.
• This Website. Offering curated content and a portal to other resources designed to present material that further elaborates on senior issues.